The day I said YES!!
It’s the most exciting day of your life… the day you’ve been dreaming about since you were little: Your Engagement!
No?! …oh. You think I meant to say “Your Wedding Day”? Well, I guess that does make sense for most people.
Hmm. Perhaps if I share my story, it can hopefully help clarify my odd sense of priorities…
When I was just six years old, my mom took me to a park in the city of Miraflores, Peru. The park sat up on a small seaside cliff. It was called “El Parque del Amor” or “The Park of Love”.
In the center of the park sat a huge statue of a couple in a lovers embrace sharing a passionate kiss. As we looked up at the statue together, she told me about the park’s legend: “If you bring the man you love to this park and kiss him under this statue, he will be the man you marry and you will live together happily ever after.” From that day on, I never stopped dreaming of the day I would find the love of my life proposing to me under that statue in The Park of Love.
Sixteen years later, on May 27, 2010, I found myself standing under that very statue in the park. This time however, instead of my mom, I was accompanied by my first true love.
Paul brought along our camcorder to tape, what just seemed to me at the time, a sentimental return to a park for people in love. While standing underneath the statue together, we shared our feelings and shortly after, he went down on one knee and began to propose! “Bonnie Elmendorf… Will you marry me?” My surprise only allowed me to muster a “Oh My Gosh!” several times before finally absorbing what was happening. With the people around us slowly beginning to clap and cheer, I immediately said “Yes!”, put the ring on and hugged him before he even had a chance to stand up! It was literally the happiest day of my life… I was smiling from ear to ear for weeks!


